What is Collaring? A Symbol of Commitment and Ownership
Collaring: The Basics
Collaring refers to the practice of wearing a collar, often resembling a necklace or choker, within the context of a BDSM relationship. It symbolizes various things such as ownership, submission, devotion, or protection. The meaning behind the collar varies among individuals and relationships, but it often represents a deep and significant connection.
Examples of Collaring
Ceremonial Collaring: Conducting a ceremony where the dominant partner places the collar on the submissive, reflecting a new phase or commitment in their relationship.
Play Collaring: Using a collar during specific BDSM scenes or play sessions, signifying a temporary power exchange.
Protection Collaring: A symbol of a dominant's intention to protect a submissive, often without a romantic or sexual connection.
Ownership Collaring: Reflecting a total power exchange relationship where the submissive is considered owned by the dominant.
Understanding and Navigating Collaring
Communication and Agreement: Both partners should discuss and agree on the meaning and expectations associated with the collar.
Awareness of Different Types: Recognizing that collars can symbolize different things in different relationships, including temporary play or long-term commitments.
Choosing the Right Collar: Selecting a collar that fits comfortably and resonates with the symbolism you wish to express.
Respecting the Collar: Understanding that to many, a collar is a profound symbol, not merely an accessory.
Where to Find Support and Education
Exploring the world of collaring requires guidance and understanding. Engaging with a sex-positive educator, such as those at the Pleasure School, can provide support, information, and classes tailored to your needs.
Collaring in the BDSM community is more than a physical adornment; it's a symbol, a pact, a sacred emblem of connection. It represents trust, love, obedience, protection, and a host of other emotions and commitments.
From playful experimentation to deeply personal ceremonies, collaring offers a tangible manifestation of an intangible connection. Explore it with care, reverence, and an open heart, and you may discover new horizons in your relationships and self-awareness.